Friday, September 9, 2011

Draught of Hope

Draught of Hope

by David J. LeLacheur


And what if I were Keats re-born?

Born to witness beauty and truth?

If given sight to live, not mourn,

Could I recite, as did that youth?

Shine light on treasures all around?

Hear elves and nymphs in each song bird?

With drunken mead, the world astound?

And scent of grass imbue each word?

And yet, how can this be --

With my own eyes I see.


It could be so, I dream aloud,

We are all atoms, born from stars.

(Did he know that legacy proud:

We are heirs to Venus and Mars?)

A hallowed mote, dazzling strand,

Borne from far by heavenly flow

A kingly gift from his own hand

Infuse my heart -- but can we know

From whither comes a soul?

Would his loss make mine whole?


Forlorn, adrift, from Faery home,

There is no sense to give me hope.

Without is but an empty tome;

No hand will throw a saving rope.

Through darkling doubt, despair of haze,

Tremors afoot, the world's a-quake.

I stoop; I fall; my eyes then raise --

Does light from yonder window break?

Turmoil'd, I close my view.

Within I'll find my hue.


I cannot take, nor live to break;

We must be all our Selves and full.

How then to live, this thirst to slake?

Is glory's dream but shadow's pull?

One sense remains: to touch, to feel.

The dryad's dance my heart will chase.

Noise and chatter must not steal

From me my nature's own embrace.

Yes, there is another:

Of all these, the mother.


Imagination, draught of hope,

I'll drink thee to the dregs with joy.

With burning brand and worldly scope

I'll march, I'll write, I'll be a boy.

Alive, reborn, recovered sight,

New breath will sing to heavens blue:

"From old to young, from dark to light,

Forever be forever new!"

And with these leaves I'll chance,

Once more to join the dance.


4/14/2011

Monday, August 29, 2011

I came across a website dedicated to the memory of Professor William Alfred, from whom I took Old English and Beowulf as an undergrad. There were only a few posts on this site, so I wished to add my own. Here is a copy of it.

"I never had the pleasure of a friendship that many enjoyed with Professor Alfred, but I have never forgotten his teaching. He had the ability to create an aura, a time and place apart from the little room where we were meeting for "Beowulf". The room would quieten in anticipation, and it felt to me like the lights were dimming to the red coals of an ancient firepit; and each student was not a twentieth century erudite studying a long dead language, but rather we were all alive, sitting around the mead hall more than a dozen centuries earlier. I imagined smelling the smoke from the fire as it wafted towards the ceiling. Then Professor Alfred would start....

"Hwaet! We Gardena / in gear-dagum..."

with that richly cultured voice, and it was clear that no, we were not listening to a dead language at all, but one that was brought very much alive by Professor Alfred.

I probably deserved to fail the first semester of Old English; I had been indifferent all semester and completely choked on the final exam. But a desperate plea, written by me at the end of my blue book, was apparently heeded with his legendary kindness, and a barely acceptable in-major grade of C- was given to me by this forgiving man. I took the second semester, Beowulf, and earned a B+, my highest grade ever (save one) at Harvard, and my most cherished, for I had fulfilled his faith in me. I always said a special prayer for him when I saw him at mass at St. Paul's, and even now I still do at times. The kindness we do for others, especially that which can never be repaid, is the truest measure of our humanity.

Dave LeLacheur '87"

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Red Sox Nation: alive and well in Page, AZ

Today's entry demonstrates the reach of our very own Boston Red Sox. We took a boat trip for 16 miles down the Colorado River, starting from Page, AZ, which was great fun (and very hot). Before getting underway, we purchased a few snacks in the company store, and chatted with the nice lady who was helping us. When she found out we'd traveled all the way from Massachusetts, she asked if we were Red Sox fans. Of course! It turns out that she was the kindergarten teacher for none other than Jacoby Ellsbury (who apparently was friendly with her son at that time as well).

I keep telling Marcy, it's all about baseball. Everything.

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Visit our National Parks and See the World

Our ongoing tour has recently alighted into southern Utah for some of the famous National Parks in this area, specifically Bryce Canyon National Park and Zion National Park. Of course, the natural sights here are astonishing almost to the point of being un-photographical (at least by amateurs).

But that isn't what has surprised me the most. What has surprised me the most is the huge variety of foreign languages I hear being spoken. In Bryce, we saw several tour buses, mostly of Asian (my ear thought Japanese) tourists. It's a stereotype, I know, but it arose from somewhere real, evidently. As our family was doing the Navajo Trail hike (which we extended into a longer hike because the the end of the trail loop was closed without being marked, tsk tsk), we were accompanied along the journey by a group of about 20 Japanese women, with a Japanese man as the group leader. Sure, they took pictures; so did we. What was astonishing was the vigor of the group. In the end, climbing back up the canyon wall was a somewhat harrowing experience for me personally (heights not being my thing at the best of times), but it was ameliorated by our company. Was I inspired by the 75 year old Japanese women who I could barely keep up with -- or was I shamed? Doesn't really matter; motivation was found when needed.

In Zion we got around to a lot more sights and a variety of shorter hikes. That, combined with the useful shuttle buses required for visiting the main canyon area, gave us greater exposure to other visitors than Bryce. The effect in languages heard was even more pronounced (haha): lots of German speakers, some Chinese, Japanese, and quite a few Scandinavian speakers (despite my Old Norse, my ear isn't clever enough to distinguish Swedish from Norwegian or Danish; though my guess is that most of these folks were Swedish), and a few French and British folks.

Let's be clear about this: my estimate is that more than 50% of the visitors were not from the USA. I was astonished. For grins, on the way back on the last shuttle bus I decided it was time for my daily lesson in "La Marseillaise". Gwen, the Daughter, learned it last year in her French immersion class, and I've been trying to pick it up under her tutelage. She's got the teaching knack down pretty well, and is one tough cookie. ("Dad, you almost got it right, just these 3 syllables were wrong....") During the ride, I think I finally mastered the last bits of the second line.

Anyways, I felt comfortable doing this because of the variety of tongues being spoken all around me. I thought we wouldn't even be noticed. In this I was incorrect, however, as the driver noted jovially after a little while (on the loudspeaker no less), "You know, your entertainment won't reduce your fare." (Which is $0 btw.) To which I replied: "But we accept tips!" His response: "When I say that, everyone usually heads for the door!"

Anyways, why Zion, and Bryce? I did not notice many visitors from overseas at Glacier National Park (in fact, I don't remember any up there), and scant few in the Yellowstone / Teton National Park areas. I suppose that they are more remote, and are less easily toured (being so BIG), than Zion and Bryce. And perhaps the closeness of Zion and Bryce to other parks (Grand Canyon, Canyonlands, Aztec ruins, and perhaps Las Vegas) may make for an attractive 2 week vacation package from abroad?

We'll see if the trend continues at the Grand Canyon. In the meantime, if you want a cultural experience, why travel abroad? Just go visit Bryce and Zion!

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

1001 Uses of Peanut Butter

I love peanut butter. No, I LOVE peanut butter. Sometimes, when at home, I will eat peanut butter three times a day. Rarely does a day pass without my eating peanut butter at all. I can't say why, other than I love it! Eggo's and other waffles, English Muffins, toast and all manner of bread, cornbreads or scones are all fair game. I once tried peanut butter on another favorite food, pizza, but it didn't really do either any credit. One of the worst things about the two weeks of this trip so far is that I have only had a chance to have peanut butter twice (and pizza only once). Must redress this soon.

Anyways, today in Glacier National Park, we went on a tidy 4 mile hike in the Two Medicine Lake area. Beautiful area, great weather, terrific hike. We get back, and I notice this big blotch on the bottom portion of Gwen's pony tail. Turns out she had an encounter somewhere along the way with a pine tree, and the pine tree left its mark: a big glop of sap had fused together a significant portion of her ponytail into one clump.

The Park Ranger who'd guided the hike was sought for advice; she advised alcohol, which we were disappointed to learn did not mean beer, but rubbing alcohol. My wife asked the hotel's front desk where one might find some, only to be advised by the nice woman there that alcohol was a bad idea and might damage Gwen's hair. What was the right substance to use to leetch out the sap?

You guessed it: peanut butter.

I was happy. What father doesn't want to threaten their kids with doing crazy things, right? "If you don't finish your broccoli I'm going to put it in your chocolate milk and make you drink it!" Now I had real, live ammo. "Gwen, you and I have a date tonight, with some peanut butter." The Mom, knowing my affinity for the substance was only to happy to excuse herself to go do gaboons of laundry (is gaboons a real word? or is it just a LeLacheur family word?), and I was on. Sam was disarmed and relegated to a bed to write in his journal with the very credible threat of: "I've got this peanut butter, and I know how to use it. If you don't finish your journal soon DOT DOT DOT." He got the hint.

You know what, the peanut butter worked brilliantly. The sap was drawn out with little fuss or muss, and I got to enjoy one of my favorite smells in the process. I need to go thank the front desk person now. ;-)

Fourth of July in Montana

Well, I've realized that my opportunities to update this, or indeed to write in my old-fashioned journal (i.e., by hand) are much more limited than I've expected. So I'm giving myself the latitude to post stuff here randomly. The longer narration will be continued and updated when I can do so.

Anyways, so here it is, July 5th. We've been lucky enough to spend the last 3 days in Glacier National Park. GNP is located along the Canadian border, in western Montana. Actually, it is perhaps more accurate to say that it is located west of the Blackfeet nation; more on that later. GNP is unbelievable; more on that later, too My topic for this post is pretty simple: Fourth of July celebrations in Montana.

Montana has no restrictions (that I've seen; few if any) on firecrackers and the like, so we expected some pretty rousing shows last night. We're from the Boston area, which has amazing fireworks shows on the Esplanade every year, so maybe we're a little bit spoiled. Still, when we were told we could see the fireworks from our hotel room's back door (it's really a motel room, but who's counting; St. Mary's Lodge, nice place, letting me use their wifi right now; great restaurant -- thanks again for stellar service, Soren!), as I say, we were told to step outside our door and just watch. Okay. We did. So did a few others on either side of us. (Which was funny: Sam was wearing his Zdeno Chara Bruins tee shirt, and it turns out our "neighbors" on one side were big Canucks fans. Happily, they were gracious and not vindictively-minded. ;-)

It was not all that exciting. Finally close to 10:45 or so there was a blast of 15 minutes or so that was pretty cool after all. We were satisfied, and ushered the kids off to bed.

(Aisde: yes, that's 11 pm bedtime for an 8 and 10 year old. And not just 11 pm, but 11 pm MST, which is 1 am in the time zone, EST, they are accustomed to. Yikes.)

Five minutes later, the real fireworks began, or so it seemed. Intermittently, huge blasts kept going off for quite some time. Not in any organized fashion, unfortunately. It seemed like Joe Average Montanan was taking this opportunity to blast off a few noisemakers just for the heck of it. Hey, I thought, that's fine; it's the Fourth of July.

Well, by the time it was the Fifth of July, I was ready for it to stop. Amazingly, the kids had passed out into glorious slumbers by then. But no, on and on. The last blast I heard was at 5 am. I have concluded that Montanans have taken a very rational approach to their fireworks, actually, reserving the right to use them only in the dark. Since it doesn't get dark around here until almost 11 pm, and begins to light after 5 am, this makes a certain amount of sense.

And so passed the Fourth, and began the Fifth, in Montana.

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

More Background leading to The First Day

There and Back Again

A six week trek, odyssey, and adventure starring Sam, Gwen, Marcy and Dave.

Journal by Dave LeLacheur

6/23/2011. It was all begun as something of a lark. About two months ago, Marcy was coming down the home stretch of her master's in counseling psychology program; she was extremely busy, working day and night, a pace which would last into the second week of May. Somewhere in that hectic period, one of us jokingly raised the idea of all four of us going on a cross-country voyage. We'd considered it a Good Idea from long ago; on the strength of Marcy's two such extended vacations when she was young (which occurred when she was 2 and 12, I believe), the notion had long ago slipped unassumingly into our pantheon of Good Ideas, where it had remained comfortably uninspected ever since.

Like most such Good Ideas -- we all have them; some of my others include vacationing to Machu Picchu, hiring out a real castle in England or France to live in for a month, or participating in a (and perhaps even organizing) "Wooster and Jeeves" themed weekend for adults, allowing one to soak in the Wodehousian atmosphere in a country estate, served by a brilliant, if temperamental, French chef, while the largest concerns of the day would be how to steal a policeman's hat, or how much to wager on the local children's three-legged race -- like most of these, I had no real expectation that it would actually happen. Is not the main point of such fantasies the reveling in the imaginative flight of "What if...?"

And yet the seed evidently had some roots about it, for much to my surprise, those careless conversations took hold of me. The question that, once asked, could not be answered was simply: "If not now, when?" It could be answered, of course, but that answer would simply and finally be "Never." I think that is what won me over: I was not prepared to accept "Never" as a final verdict and close down this Good Idea forever.

The planning had one ally in my mind: a prior commitment for myself. Last fall, I had agreed to meet up in Wichita, Kansas, for ~10 days of playing World in Flames with two German friends, at Eric's home. The group of us had played three years in a row at EuroWiFCON in October in Germany, but none of us were going to be able to go in 2011. When Karsten and Michael proposed to come to the states this summer instead, my reason for not going -- a financial one -- was greatly ameliorated, so I agreed. For much of the several months since committing, I had been uneasy about the decision. It's all well and good that I was taking some time off after the prior work with CareerLeader had ended; even I, with my famously poor ability to see what I needed, recognized that I needed rest. I was emotionally, morally, and physically exhausted from the last several years. So puttering around for a growing number of months did not trouble me strategically (although at a more tactical level, the one-way flow of money was always worrisome). But the notion of taking a vacation, a personal vacation away from the family at that, in the midst of a period of not working seemed more than a little self-indulgent.

The trip beautifully erased all such feelings. The cost of getting to Wichita was halved (I will have to take a train from Gallup, AZ, while the others saunter through Colorado for a week before catching up with me), and while I am playing, so will Sam, Gwen, and Marcy be playing too. A bold stroke; guilt erased. And while the cash flow worries remain (and indeed have been accelerated by this trip), it is also true that the fact of going away galvanized me to take some job-like actions which may have set some good things in motion in that realm as well.

The morning progresses here in Poplar Grove, Illinois, where we are staying one night at Marcy's Uncle Barry and Aunt Maryanne's lovely house enfolded by a golf course, so I will wrap up today's writing with a quick synopsis of the first two days. 6/21, Tuesday, was the last day of school, and the first day of the trip. A couple of intense weeks of planning, plotting, and logisticing had gotten us as ready as possible. Emotions were running high, especially for Sam and Gwen, who only once had been away from home for more than a week (that was a two week jaunt to Florida, including a few days at Disney World and visiting both sets of grandparents, which tended to minimize the away-from-home feelings), and were now keenly aware that they were going to be vagabonds for a month and a half. Gwen got a little manic, but her excitement was still ahead of her fears. Sam tends to feel his fears in advance, and on the final days before going, his excitement was surpassed by a collection of feelings, partly concerns over the vacation, but also supplemented and extended by the end of the school year (which he loved unreservedly; in fact we delayed the trip several days to honor his wish to complete his year of perfect attendance), the fact that several schoolmates, notably Will, one of his best friends, were moving away, and most of all that he'd been away from all of his friends for a long time.

Monday, June 27, 2011

More any day

The bullet train westwards has finally slowed. The Ravioli has performed splendidly, and we are now in Cody, WY. Much to update on, and, if Internet access holds over the next few days as expected, I should have plenty to write about here. More any day....

Monday, June 20, 2011

D-Day - 1: Itinerary and Utter Panic

I'll post the first leg's itinerary below. But today's real issue is all about Utter Panic. The Son & Daughter in their own ways are feeling it; bad dreams for the boy, expressed nervousness for the girl (this is a gender thing right? girls just seem better at expressing than boys, in my observation of the youngster crowd). The Mom is too; you can see it in the double-caffeinated drinks and high speed action that follow.

Me? What me worry? I'm not panic(k)ed in the slightest. Should I be?

And THIS is what has me worried. That I should be worried. And that I probably (no, definitely) have about seventeen things to do right now other than to go a-blogging. But what's the big deal? Part of the neatness of The Plan is that on day #4 we hit Wall, South Dakota, for a visit to the famed Wall Drug store. Where you can get anything. Perhaps fall-back plan, if you ask me. Not that I made the plan; I'm not that clever ~ probably because I'm not worried about needing to be clever. Which is worrisome. Anyways, here's the plan.

D-Day: tomorrow: scoop the kids after school's half day; give them exactly 22 minutes to run around in the after school picnic in the big field across the road; then we bullet off to Buffalo for night number one. Driving time expected to be about 7.5 hours (not including stops). It'll be a late arrival.

D-Day+1: destination is Marcy's Uncle & Aunt's house in north west Illinois. This is the loooong day of driving. We'll take off from Buffalo early (like by 5:30 am) in the hopes of dodging the worst of the Chicago commute traffic and arriving at stop #2 by 5 or 6 pm. Total time of travel might be a low as 10.5 hours, but it might be a bit more, too.

D-Day+2: blasting off early again, ending this time in Sioux Falls, South Dakota. What is in Sioux Falls? I have no idea. A lot of water right now, judging by the news of storms and floods. It is another long day's driving (about 8 hours) as we continue our westward ho! bullet train approach. I guess I've been playing too much Mario Cart Wii, because I keep thinking of that bullet bonus thing you get, and how this is exactly how we are approaching the first few days of travel. The only sights we're seeing are those outside the car window!

D-Day+3: now the fun begins. We should make it to the Badlands area in time to take in some of the views of that national treasure. Plus that visit to Wall Drug. Then we'll camp out (for the first time), enjoying a night sky experience of star-gazing that the campground offers. The idea of being far far from city night lights is exciting.

D-Day+4: from the Badlands we wander around to take in Mount Rushmore and the Crazy Horse monument-in-progress. (I'm told you should see them together, in that order, for maximum effect.) Then we arrive at a campground nestled under the tall shoulders of Devil's Tower. (Cue the music from "Close Encounters"; memo to self: don't order mashed potatoes!)

D-Day+5: after exploring some more of Devil's Tower, we'll drive to Cody, Wyoming via the Big Horn National Forest.

D-Day+6: our first full week concludes with some time spent in Cody's museums, followed by a drive over to Thermopolis, WY. One of the really exciting events starts tomorrow, but we'll have to wait for the next blog post for that. I'm not worried at all. But I am deeply concerned at my high comfort level, so I need to go have a snack and think this through....

Thursday, June 16, 2011

SOULS

D-Day - 5 and the preparations continue dizzingly. I will have a real itinerary to post shortly, but before getting into all of that stuff, I had to take one more aside and talks about SOULS. This is an acronym for the _S_top _OU_tdoor _L_ittering _S_ociety.

What is SOULS? The brainchild of my 8 year old daughter, Gwen, and her new buddy Barrett. They got to be friends watching all of Sam's baseball games this spring (Barrett's older brother was one of the team's star pitchers). The ball fields in Milton are quite nice, but, like any town, they are very heavily used, and consequently they get a bit of trash and litter strewn about.

This was not to be borne, at least not by Gwen and Barrett. During one game the two hatched a plan. They were walking in the woods on a little slope just above the ball field, when they saw some litter in the bushes. They took the litter to a big trash can and dumped it in. But, the litter was not gone; there was a lot more. They formed a patrol and began scouring the woodsy perimeter around the ball fields for more trash. It was dangerous work: thorns tried to impede their efforts, but they were not daunted by a few paltry cuts. (Although one of Gwen's still hurts a bit.)

Fate intervened on their patrol: Gwen's grandma and grandpa were walking by, heading towards the game. Gwen and Barrett said hi, and asked them if they could bring the newly-collected trash over to a nearby trash can. They said, why don't you ask to get a bag from the snack bar? It was a good idea, so Barrett went to get a bag, while Gwen ferreted out more litter. Barrett's foray was a success: he came back with more than a bag; he also had two clear plastic gloves. Two gloves among four hands might have posed a problem for some, but not for Gwen and Barrett: they each took one glove, and went about their business.

They filled their trash bag, and wandered down to the big trash barrel behind home plate. This was when the parents noticed some surprising things: (a) Gwen and Barrett had matching gloves, clear plastic ones, Gwen wearing it on her right hand, and Barrett on his left; (b) they were lugging a very full bag of trash; and (c) and they had very big, determined smiles on their faces. They knew why: they were saving the planet, right here and now, in a very real way.

They went for a second round of trash collection. The supply of trash was by no means exhausted, and they refilled their bag once again. After the second wave had been disposed of, they laid down their weapons of tidiness, happy to be out of thorn's reach for the rest of the night, just as the baseball game ended.

So, that is how the society came to be. With a little creative conversation, the name SOULS came about, and The Daughter, Gwen, has been recruiting others for it ever since.

This is the same Gwen who makes us think about questions rarely considered by 40-somethings, let alone 8 year olds. Her latest: "Dad, before people figured out language, how did they think?" Dad's feeble answer: "Wow Gwen, that is a really interesting question. I have no idea! Ask Mom!" (The Mom had a much longer answer, which Gwen could probably relate, but I had to go and watch the Bruins game that night.... ;-)

Friday, June 10, 2011

An aside: poetry

Just thought I'd share a link for a poem I wrote a little while ago:

http://readingstuffwelike.blogspot.com/

This travel-blog won't be entirely overrun by asides, but you can expect a fair number of them ;-).

Thursday, June 9, 2011

An aside: baseball

Last night, Sam's 3-11 baseball team had its first playoff game. He assured me in the afternoon that they were going to lose; his team was last in the league, playing against the #3 seed. Their opponent has an amazing player: you know how it is with athletes at this age, if they're good, they're really good, usually at everything. He'd shut down our team twice lately, going 4 or 5 innings out of 6, giving up almost nothing (this in a league where an ERA of 9.00 or lower is outstanding). The parents simply referred to this kid as The Pitcher; we all know who we meant. He reminded me of Juan Marichal out there. An unusual throwing motion, but still beautifully fluid, with a look of ease. He smiles a lot, and with good reason; in fact, he seems like a really nice, and certainly very talented, kid.

But the Fates had some wily tricks up their sleeves last night. The Pitcher apparently had a pre-game collision during warm-ups, and didn't start on the mound. (He was still the leadoff hitter, and smoked one over our CFer's head, but, in a moment full of portent, was thrown out trying stretch it home after he was safe at third but the throw got by our team's thirdbaseman ... we don't need to name who was playing third then, right?)

Anyways, it was 5-5 after 4. Our team was away, and The Pitcher came on to start the 5th. The parents groaned. "Here's comes Papelbon" quipped one. It felt like a moral victory to me: we'd forced the other team to use their best, when it seemed like they were trying to save him for the next game, hoping to beat our squad without using him up (the league has strict rules about pitch counts allowed by age per week).

With one out, Sam came up. After a couple of pitches, he swung, and bounced one to the right of the mound. Did I mention The Pitcher is a great fielder too? Well he is, but this time, he couldn't quite get a clean handle on it. Sam ran hard down the line, and beat out the throw by a whisker. He looked back around after crossing first, and was visibly surprised ~ maybe even stunned ~ to see the umpire had called him safe.

Long story short: Sam scored the go ahead run that inning as we went ahead 7-5. But the other team touched our ace reliever for 2 in the bottom of the fifth to tie it again. In the 6th, The Pitcher ~ perhaps still smarting from the pregame collision? ~ walked the first 3 hitters and was relieved. With 2 outs, we were ahead 8-7 when Sam came up again, and delivered another infield hit to make it 9-7. Our ace struck out the side in the bottom of the 6th, and our 3-11 team, is now 4-11, and undefeated in the playoffs ;-). Go CM&B!

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Preparations

I am a fundamentally naive person; I admit it, some might even accuse me of relishing it. I imagined that a cross-country trip would be right out of Normal Rockwell. Pack up the car, and whoosh!, off we all go, riding into the glorious western sunset with visions of cowboy boots and Old Faithful glimmering on the edge of sight. A real adventure! New vistas every day: generous helpings of culture, history, and archaeology all at once.

I hope I don't lose that dream; it is energizing and delightful. But let's face up for a moment here: the preparations required are astonishing. The dousing provided by "who mows the lawn, and maybe it should be a professional service for legal & safety reasons" was bad enough, but it was overmatched by the crestfallen feeling of "how does the VISA get paid while we're gone" and "sorry Charlie, you have to pre-pay two months of those painful COBRA fees right now".

And I'm only handling a fraction of the tasks! I have contributed very little, other than opinions (wanted or otherwise) to the day-to-day logistics involved in creating trip itinerary, route planning, accomodations, sights and ~ much, much more to the point ~ ensuring that said itinerary et al is properly booked and reserved in advance, so that it actually comes off in some fashion vaguely resembling the original ideas! That's the Mom's province, and I'm enormously grateful that Marcy has (a) some prior experience at this kind of travel; (b) the mindset to organize and prepare; and (c) that she seems to enjoy it all. If this realm were left to my tender mercies, we'd be grazing from one Golden Arch to the next while Super 8-ing across this tender land of ours. As it is, we have a range of delightful experiences awaiting us: adventures varying from rafting to digging for dinosaur fossils; accomodations from campgrounds under the shadow of Devil's Tower (I hear they show "Close Encounters" every night) to fun cabins and the occasional classy hotel as well.

And I haven't even begun to think about what things are going into the Ravioli, and where they might actually fit. (I did have a good idea about a rooftop storage device; I think one of the kids could probably fit in there.) Thank heavens for the Mom!

Speaking of which, let me offer public congratulations to Marcy for her receiving her Masters in Counseling Psychology, which was officially award last Sunday by her school MSPP (Massachusetts School of Professional Psychology). She did brilliantly, a perfect pointy 4.0, and has a great future rife with exciting promise ahead of her. She means to change the world for the better, and is going to do just that. Well done Marse!

Friday, June 3, 2011

Opening Thoughts

The Characters:

The Son: Sam, age 10, looking forward to the fossil dig in Wyoming
The Daughter: Gwen, age 8, budding park ranger and natural performer
The Mom: Marcy, just awarded Masters degree
The Dad: Dave, enjoying first real summer vacation in 11 years
The Ravioli: our Toyota RAV4, tasked with doing all the hard work

The Plan:

Take a real, live, long, family vacation. How often are both parents actually free in the summer? Not just for a week or two of vacation, but truly unattached professionally? It's certainly our first time since the Son and Daughter were born. So off we go: 6 weeks of wandering through the hinterlands of our country.

The Story:

The story that will take shape from this trip is intriguing. Will we find our nation's heartland still beating strongly? Will the kids' sense of wonder and discovery be forever expanded with life-enduring experiences? Will the adults find inner harmony? Will we find our natural landscape, and native American heritage, being well-respected? Will we survive the first 4 days of constant driving without going crazy? These are some of the questions on my mind.

For me (likely the principal author of the blog) the journey will doubtless be one of heart and mind as well as space, as I rebuild my world- and self-view. After more than a dozen years of running an Internet start-up, I am now changing careers, with the aim of using my technical skills to further my creative visions. In particular, I am aiming to become a professional creative writer. The writing part is fun and challenging; making it a profession is what's really puzzling and scary, but I'm determined.

The Travel Plan:

Leave June 21, right after the half day of school. Like a bullet, we will speed westwards for 4 days, slowing down finally in the Badlands area of South Dakota. I'll post detailed itinerary in days to come, but highlights will include a couple of days each in Yellowstone National Park and Glacier National Park; visits with friends in Idaho and Wichita; and as many of the various, incredible national parks in the southern Utah region as we can fit it.

I will duck out for a week away from the rest of the clan in late July, meeting up with a friend who lives in Wichita, KS, plus 2 other friends from Germany, and the four of us will play a week long World War 2 game, World in Flames. The Mom meanwhile will lead the charges through Colorado, eventually joining the crazy gamers in Wichita, from where we'll head back eastwards.

We expect to be back home in eastern Massachusetts by the first week of August. All in all, it will be a summer to remember!